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There is such a couplet in the Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou, Zhejiang:
“How can life be more satisfactory, and everything is only half-satisfactory.”
The language of the couplet is simple, but rich in philosophy.
This “semi-satisfactory” life and the mentality of contentment and
peace of mind, was called
“the most sound ideal of life discovered by the Chinese” by Mr. Lin Yutang.
“Semi-satisfactory” is not helpless and negative, but a kind of open-mindedness and wisdom.
Since ancient times, life has been full of taboos, half poor, half rich and half self-sufficient;
half life, half day, half chance, half giving, half doing good;
half deaf, half dumb, half confused, half wise, half stupid, half sage;
half human, half self, half free, half awake Half drunk and half immortal;
half dear, half loving, half bitter and happy, half vulgar, half Zen and half resigned;
half of life depends on me, and the other half depends on nature.
After reading so many “Messages from Life”, no one knows that the whole life can be understood with only four Chinese characters:
Jian, Bin, Ka, Yin:
The character “Jian” can be big or small, and
the character “Bin” can be
Wennengwu, the word “ka” can go up and down, and the word “yin ” can bend
It can be
said that although a person’s life is complicated, the four characters are simple and clear.
Being able to be great and able to understand the state of the world; being able to write and perform martial arts is a talent
1. What is happiness?
Talk and laugh during the day and sleep well at night.
2. What is wisdom?
Things that are arranged can be done well, and things that are not arranged can be thought of.
3. What is emotional intelligence?
Talking makes people like it, doing things makes people move, and being a person makes people miss.
4. What is positive energy?
Give people hope, direction, strength, wisdom, confidence, and happiness.
With a different
mentality , the circumstances of life will be very different.
Happiness is to see the magic in the ordinary;
happiness is to taste the true flavor in the ordinary.
Happiness is not a gift from life, but the understanding of the heart;
happiness is not a gift from others, but the indifference of the heart.
Only when you are willing to be mediocre, don’t fight, don’t cling, and don’t care about, can you feel more happiness.
Home is a place of love, not unreasonable;
home is a place to relax, not noisy;
home is a place of peace of mind, not arrogant;
home is the sustenance of feelings, not to be deceived.
A home should be warm, not cold and cold;
a family should be accompanied, not separated from relatives.
Don’t arrange life too full, don’t design life too crowded.
No matter what you do, you must give yourself some space so that you can turn around calmly.
Leave a little advantage for others to take advantage of, leave a little road for others to walk, and leave a little time for yourself to think.
At any time, remember to leave some leeway in life, not complacent when you get it
, not depressed when you lose it, and calm and calm between gains and losses.
The reason why people are troubled lies in memory;
the reason why people are tired is that they wander;
The reason why people move forward is to be grateful;
the reason why people are happy is to be open-minded;
the reason why people are mature is to see through;
the reason why people give up is to choose;
the reason why people are tolerant is to understand;
the reason why people are human is to feel; The
reason why people are fulfilled lies in the process;
the reason why people succeed lies in diligence;
the reason why people are happy lies in contentment.
Health preservation cannot make you 10 years younger immediately, but after 10 years,
the people around you and around you will all be 10 years older, and you will still be what you are today.
˙Health preservation cannot cure your disease immediately, but after 10 years,
people around you may gradually leave, but you are still what you are today.
˙Health preservation cannot make you rich immediately, but 10 years later,
when everyone around you is borrowing money everywhere for medical treatment and bankruptcy, you can live comfortably without worrying about food and clothing.
Eating: three points of hunger, seven points of fullness; when in
trouble: three points of worry, seven points of joy;
going out: three points of car ride, seven points of walking;
food: three points of saltiness, seven points of bland food;
diet: three points of meat dishes , seven points of vegetarian;
fitness: three points of entertainment, seven points of training;
sickness: three points of treatment, seven points of nourishment;
dressing: three points of coolness, seven points of warmth.
Retired classmates, colleagues, and friends, remember these 8 points and
persist for 50 years, each of us will be happy like a fairy!